There is an old saying about how women are mysterious. This is such a widely accepted saying most guys have given up on trying to figure them out. This is a big mistake because women are not as difficult to figure out once you know what you are looking for. Many of the clues you are looking for are in her body language. You can tell by the way she is standing or looking at you exactly what she is thinking. Knowing what she is thinking can help you to make decisions about what you should do and how you should act. Here are a few subtle hints to watch out for when you are trying to figure out what she is thinking.

Leaning Back in Her Chair Arms Folded

What may look to the untrained eye as a woman who is simply relaxing and taking it easy is actually a very unhappy woman. When she is leaning back, she is disengaged with what is going on around her and she does not care. She is folding her arms to cut herself off from everything going on around her. All hope is not lost. Take the time to engage her with conversation and give her a reason to get involved in what is going on around her. The more you talk with her, the more interested she is going to be.

Twirling Her Hair

Generally when a woman is twirling her hair with her fingers, she is thinking about something that excites her. Hopefully, she is getting excited thinking about you and the potential you represent to her. You will know this is the case if she is engaging with you in conversation and smiling at you while she is twirling her hair. If she has a dreamy look in her eyes as she is doing all of this, you have really turned her on and she wants to show you how much she is turned on. Make sure you are being careful to maintain this interest, because it can turn on a dime.

Having Trouble Maintaining Attention

If you notice your date is constantly looking away or paying attention to her watch, it does not mean she is not interested in you. This is what women do when they are thinking about something, or something is worrying them. As soon as you see something like this, make sure to talk with her about what is on her mind. In most cases, she will feel instantly better if she can just talk about it. This will allow her to get it off her chest and she will instantly feel more bonded to you as a result. If she simply cannot be present in the date as a result, this is something you should know as well and you can just reschedule for another time.
Watch for these signs and you will have much better dates as a result of your ability to read her body language.