When you go on a date, it is all about getting to know the person you are on the date with. Of course, you do not want to ruin your chances with the girl. This is why you do not start talking about a second date right away. Securing the second date is important so you know you will be seeing her again, but at the same time, you do not want to appear too eager. Taking your time and reading the signals will help you to make the right decision when talking with her about meeting for a second date.

Talking about Places She Might like to Go

One way you can put a feeler out to see if she is even interested in a second date is to talk about places she likes to go while on the first date. If she is not willing to talk about other places she likes to go, she is definitely not interested in seeing you again. If she wants to go on a second date, she might even start talking about wanting to go there with you. This is not always going to happen, but it takes the load off your mind if she brings it up first.

Is She Talking about Seeing You Again?

One easy way to know if she is interested in a second date is if she is asking you about your plans for certain days. If she has no intention of ever seeing you again, she will not be talking about your future plans. If she starts to ask you about what days you are doing things on, you can start asking her if she would like to join you for any of those things. Just remember the kind of relationship you are looking for and do not obligate yourself to doing anything which will develop the relationship more than you are interested in.

When to Tread Lightly

There are going to be dates in which no mention of the future is brought up and everything through the date is simply about what you are doing in the moment. You might want to think about whether you should talk with her about meeting for a second date.

If you have not received any indication about whether she is open to a second date, it is best to leave the date without any plans for the future. You can simply call her when you are sure she has time to make a decision. Let about two days go past and call to check in. Let her know you had a lot of fun on the date the other night and would love to get together again soon. Make sure you have a date, time and location for your date in mind when you call. Also have a second date, time and location as a backup in case she is too busy to make the first. If she cannot make the second either, and makes no suggestions, she may not want a second date at all.