Tips For Setting Up the Perfect Profile

The profile is one of the most important elements in trying to meet women online, especially if you’re going to be meeting women on a married dating site for any period of time.

Setting up your profile right will get you more dates.

You want to get as many women interested in you as possible. That’s the best way to make sure you’re getting your pick of the best women, which means you can only go out with the women in whom you’re really personally very interested on a high level.

Unfortunately, most men don’t bother to set up their profile properly. They just put in an interest or two, and most of the profile is just “Lol I’ll fill this in later” if anything at all.

This will not get you dates.

The women you want are interested in men who have their shit together, not just any man they can find. Believe us, you want women with high standards—and you want to meet those standards. Otherwise, you’re just going to wind up with women who can’t get any other men to date them.

Your profile should have the information women want to hear.

What you put your dating profile on a married affairs site might not be the information that you personally think is the most important to know. However, the profile isn’t about you. It’s about the woman (or women) that you want to meet on this site.

Just because you think it’s important to list what your high schore in bowling is doesn’t mean a woman necessarily agrees. That probably isn’t the kind of thing she’s really all that interested in.

You might not think it’s interesting, on the other hand, to list all of your favorite books, movies, and bands. To a woman, however, that can be the most important part of your profile.

Women like to have something to talk about.

The more you put on your profile, the more you’re listing about things you’d like to talk about. Women can use that to start conversations with you that you’ll both enjoy.

To help you out, we’ve collected some lists from good and bad profiles we’ve found on married dating sites. These online dating profiles will help you find the kind of women that you want to meet, while weeding out the ones you don’t prefer. These profiles are both based on the exact same man, because you don’t have to change your actual interests to appear more cultured—you just have to sound that way.

Bad Profile

Name: John MacKenzie [changed]
Favorite Movies: Weekend At Bernie’s, 2 Fast 2 Furious, Jackass! The Movie
Hobbies: idk
Three Things I Like In a Woman: tits, boobs…knockers haha
Sent me a message if: ur not my wife lol what a fuckign nag

Good Profile

Name: John
Favorite Movies: Weekend At Bernie’s, 2 Fast 2 Furious, Jackass! The Movie
Hobbies: Riding my motorcycle, remodeling my house, reading crime novels
Three Things I Like in a Woman: Her smile, her spirit of adventure, and her confidence
Send Me a Message If: You’re interested in having a no-strings-attached good time.

Notice that “John” keeps his real name secret in the second profile—even if he’s not going to use his real name, publicly displaying a last name makes him look like an amateur.

You don’t have to change your interests to make yourself look more cultured or anything. Yes, you can tell women what they want to hear in some aspects, but don’t change yourself. Otherwise, they’ll show up to your date and be disappointed in who you really are.

Your profile has to work for you.

When you email a woman on a married dating site, the very first thing she does is go to your profile to see if you’re worth that one first date to her. If not, you’re never going to hear from her again.

But if you can make your profile work for you, and you aren’t bothering with sounding like someone you aren’t, you can get a great response.