When you go on a date, it is all about getting to know the person you are on the date with. Of course, you do not want to ruin your chances with the girl. This is why you do not start talking about a second date right away. Securing the second date is important so you know you will be seeing her again, but at the same time, you do not want to appear too eager. Taking your time and reading the signals will help you to make the right decision when talking with her about meeting for a second date.
Talking about Places She Might like to Go
One way you can put a feeler out to see if she is even interested in a second date is to talk about places she likes to go while on the first date. If she is not willing to talk about other places she likes to go, she is definitely not interested in seeing you again. If she wants to go on a second date, she might even start talking about wanting to go there with you. This is not always going to happen, but it takes the load off your mind if she brings it up first.
Is She Talking about Seeing You Again?
One easy way to know if she is interested in a second date is if she is asking you about your plans for certain days. If she has no intention of ever seeing you again, she will not be talking about your future plans. If she starts to ask you about what days you are doing things on, you can start asking her if she would like to join you for any of those things. Just remember the kind of relationship you are looking for and do not obligate yourself to doing anything which will develop the relationship more than you are interested in.
When to Tread Lightly
There are going to be dates in which no mention of the future is brought up and everything through the date is simply about what you are doing in the moment. You might want to think about whether you should talk with her about meeting for a second date.