As mentioned above, the strip club is going to make the woman instantly not like you. Not only is the strip club a place which objectifies women, but it shows her you only care about the way women look. She wants to feel special because of the woman she is, not just because of the way she looks. Additionally, no woman wants to be on a date with a guy who is constantly checking out other girls. If you go to a strip club, there is not much else to do other than looking at other girls. Paying attention to her should be the number one item on your agenda if you want to have a successful date.
Like it or not, the coffee shop is a terrible place to meet for a date. There are quite a few things wrong with meeting for a cup of coffee. The first of which is the fact a coffee shop is loud and not extremely conducive to a conversation. You might as well meet at a bar if you just want to get a drink with her.
Coffee also gives you bad breath. Even if you are not worried about this, she will be. On the off chance she might like you enough to want to kiss you, she does not want to worry you will be offended by her bad breath.
The last reason why a coffee shop is a bad place to go on a date is because coffee makes you need to go to the bathroom. Sure, you want her to know you are human, but do you want to excuse yourself to go to the bathroom every five minutes because you had too much coffee? She does not want to be embarrassed this way either.
Your Friend’s House
If you are just going on your first dates, you do not want to run the risk of her being uncomfortable. This is exactly what will happen if you invite her to go to your friend’s house. She is still just getting to know you and she does not need the added pressure of being welcomed and liked by your friends as well. Save this kind of a date until you have been dating for a while and you are sure that you are actually in a relationship with one another.