As a guy, you are prone to moving a little too fast in a relationship. When you have sex on your brain all the time, you may want to jump right in the sack, but it doesn’t mean she wants to have sex with you as fast as you want to have sex with her. Take your time to avoid rushing her into something she is not ready for. You will be happier when you finally get her to agree to have sex with you and you are having it any time you want it, rather than having awkward sex which leads to her never wanting to talk with you again. Here are some ways you can avoid moving too fast and maintain her appreciation as a result.
Remember She Is Someone’s Daughter
If you are having trouble not thinking about all the dirty things you would like to do to the lady you are with, keep in mind she has a dad. He is out there somewhere thinking about his little angel. You might also consider the possibility you will have a daughter one day and how you would feel if someone was trying to move too fast with her. Don’t let this stop you from showing her your affection, because fathers want for their daughters to fall in love with men who will respect, love and care for their daughters. Just use it for empathy purposes and to help you slow you down. Her dad may come knocking at your door if you don’t treat her right…the other consideration for her being someone’s daughter.
Let Her Know How You Feel
You will not always be the one wanting to move fast. If you let her know you want to have a serious relationship and you are worried about moving too fast, she will respect it. If she does not envision having a serious relationship with you, she will let you know it as soon as you have this discussion. Do not be scared to hear this. It is better to hear she has no intention of being serious with you before you get too invested in the relationship.
Maintain Your Own Life
If you are spending every moment with her, you will feel as if your relationship is moving very fast. Make sure you are spending time apart to live your own life. Maintain a social life with your friends and family and encourage her to do the same. This helps to maintain a healthy view of where you two fit in with one another. It allows you to spend time thinking about one another when you are separated and honestly decide what it is you would like to get out of the relationship. If you are only seeing each other for dates or get-togethers, you will appreciate the time you have together even more.