Turn One Date Into Two With These Great Tips
Married dating doesn’t always have to be a single date, then done.
Many men think that they can only go on one date with each married woman they go out with. Whether this is to protect themselves or just because they think it’s the thing to do, they’re missing out on a lot of fun by not exploring all of their options.
You can go out with the same married woman many times.
Whether you’re looking for just sex or something more intimate emotionally speaking, you can almost certainly find women who are willing to give you what you need from online dating sites.
We’ve personally had great experience meeting up with women for multiple dates, even if we’d only intended to see them once. The trick is to get them to want to see you over and over, which means putting yourself out there as someone who’s good for all seasons.
Certain women are better bets for multiple dates than others.
The kind of woman who’s going to want to have a longer-term affair with you is a very specific one. Not every woman you meet on a married dating site is going to want to go out with you more than once.
Many of the women who go to these sites are looking for the briefest commitment possible. They want the immediate thrill of cheating on their husbands, but not the lingering guilt. They want to be able to have a great encounter, then put it swiftly out of their minds.
Not all women are this skittish.
Here are some characteristics of the women who are likely to be more willing to go out with you multiple times:
Slightly older, at least 30 years old. These women aren’t as skittish as their younger counterparts.
Women who are looking for a particular kind of sex on their profiles. This is almost certainly something they don’t get at home, maybe because their husbands don’t like it, maybe because they’re too shy to ask their husbands about it. These women are going to want to hook up with you as often as you want, as long as you keep hitting all of their kinks every time you meet.
Women who are very open about their sexuality. These women aren’t scared off very easily, and they like to experiment and have a lot of fun without limitations.
Not all of the women you meet will be these kinds of women, of course. Learning to spot them in the crowd is going to make your life a lot easier, since you won’t have to pick out a new woman and get to know her every time you want to have sex.
If you want to get a second married date, you have to know that you’re the kind of man women want to go on more than one date with. This might sound easy, but it can be rough.
Make yourself available.
Remember that sometimes the best answer is the simplest one. You might be able to repeat your married dates just by making it known that you’re open to that kind of thing.
Remember that women are, in general, more skittish about stepping out on their husbands than men tend to be. In many cases, that’s because they stand to lose a lot more if they get caught. Most women aren’t the primary breadwinners in their homes, so they might lose their primary source of income as well as their life and home if things go belly-up.
Of course, there is one thing that you can do to make sure you get repeat dates, as often as you want them. This one thing is even more important than picking the right kind of women for repeat dating, and even easier to get right if you know what you’re doing.
Be a good first date.
Whether a woman is looking to meet someone just once or for a longer-term commitment, they’re far more likely to agree to a second date if the first one is fantastic. Even women who don’t want to step out more than once will find their resolve wavering if they have an amazing time with you the first time they go out with you.
If you’re a good first date, the chances are that you’ll be a great second date. This doesn’t mean that you should hold anything back for the second date, of course. Don’t tell her things like, “Make sure you see what else I can do,” or “If you think this is nice, wait until the next time.”
Be the absolute best first date you can be. Lay it all on the table. That way, she’ll always know that she’s getting something great every time she goes out with you (Follow our blog to find even more first date tips).