Women love a sensitive guy. They like you to show your emotions if you are going to have any kind of relationship with them, but this does not mean becoming a wimpy fool just to try to get laid. Instead, you need to find a happy balance between being manly and being sensitive. It is amazing the difference it makes when you are trying to get in good relationship with a woman if you can accomplish this. Here are some tips to guide you along the path to getting in touch with your sensitive side.
She Enjoys Talking about Emotions
Guys are not exactly the best when it comes to emotions, but she likes to talk about feeling and if you can pander to this need, she will pander to your needs, so ask her how she feels about things. If you are holding her hand, ask her how it makes her feel. She will be impressed if you even talk about feelings. If you are worried this puts you into the friend territory, so don’t be worried. She will still want your body even if you can show you are interested in her feelings. In fact, it may make her feel lust towards you, because she now has a slight bond with you. The trick to this is after asking about her feelings you have to actually listen to what she has to say. Just listening passively is not going to get it. Put in the effort and you will be rewarded.
Explore What Excites Her
Once you have started talking about emotions and feelings, you can start delving into talk about what excites her. She is already feeling warm and fuzzy from talking about emotions and now it is time to capitalize on it. Let her know that you want to make sure you can please her and you want to know what excites her the most. You will be surprised by what she is willing to say at this point. In fact, she is likely going to surprise herself with what she is going to say. Instead of showing shock, show her how excited it is making you when she is sharing all of this with you. She needs confirmation that she is telling you something about which you can both get excited about.
Tell Her What Excites You
At this point, you have given her a lot to talk about and think about. Now, it is time for you to tell her about what excites you. She is going to be very receptive to anything you have to say at this point. However, refrain from getting too vulgar. Only if she has talked about something should you be willing to talk about it. If she has not talked about anal sex, you may not want to tell her how much you enjoy it. You may turn all of the excitement into an awkward situation if she finds out you are into something which grosses her out. Have fun exploring with her but at the right pace.