If you’ve been reading about our success and failures on these websites, you might wonder what kind of men we are that have had all of these experiences. Don’t worry, we’re not hiding anything.
We’re trying to help men like us.
After our experiences, we figured that many men in the UK must be having the same experiences we had been—we’d been married, but looking for something more, and had no idea about how to get started with an affair.
We all got together (a group of five men who had all been pub friends before our experiment) and decided to make a guide for all the men like us who hadn’t known where to start. We wanted to make sure they didn’t get scammed by terrible websites (like we had), didn’t get scammed by escorts and women out to make a pound (like we had), and didn’t run the risk of getting caught (like we certainly had).
We chose lots for one lucky member.
While we all wrote the guides we came up with together and tabulated our results together, only one man among us was selected for the experiment for which sites were good and which were bad. We all helped him with his profile, and he shared with us the different experiences he had on each website. However, he was the only one to get to go on the dates from all of these sites.
At the end of our trial, we were armed with even more information about what the women on married dating sites were looking for. We’d kept track of pretty much everything, so we were sure about what we were looking for by this point in our experiment.
We found a LOT of scams.
Think of us as your jungle guides. We’ve purposely walked on ahead without looking where we were going, so we know where all the tiger traps are, all the pockets that look safe but are full of dangers, and all of the surprisingly healthy foods to eat.
In other words, we know what we’re doing—and we’re willing to share.
What good is experience if it doesn’t help anyone? We’ll show you what you need to know about how to behave, about what (and who) to avoid, and about how to pull off the affair of your dreams without fear.